Per Gen. Patton, the idea is not to die for one's country but to make the other bastard die for his country, right? So let us begin to view our ignoble baby-killing war dead as the losers they were. Suckers, too.
Personal note: We'd like to be part of a species that doesn't get virtually everything 180° wrong virtually 24/7 for a little while. Is that really too much to ask?